Top Questions I get asked

1. How tall are you?

• I am 6'6'' to about 6'7'' including my shoes. Lol followed by this question is always....Thats right, you got it.."Do you play basketball?" I have to say yes, but sometimes I say "No actually I play golf ma'am/sir". Of course im kidding and they catch on to my sense of humor right away.

These next few questions result from individuals who met me and then got to know me a little bit more. Rather it being physically or mentally. Primarily these questions all arise from only women.

2. Do you have any kids?

Dezzy Liu and I

• Yes i have a daughter who goes by the name of Dezzy Liu. You can find a picture of her at the bottom or take a look here to the right.  Ok ok ok not biologically lol but that is the only responsibility I have. So to answer the question truthfully, No I do not have any children. I just havent found the right woman to allow that blessing of human nature to occur. Have i had girlfriends? Yes, but I also have Ex-Girlfriends too.(for a reason). No Children, but I would like to have a family someday.

3. You gonna be a great Father when you do have children

• "Your gonna be good dad, kids like you for some reason lol, and you are very good with them."- Donita Adams
• I believe this as well, I thank all who believe in my character as a man to compliment me in such a manner. One day My children will point to a picture proudly showing their friend and say "Thats him! Thats my Dad right there!" When a child can say that, especially in the african american community, its BigTime! Because a lot of homes are broken and single parenting. I and my Mother were a statistic of Single Parent home of 4 boys. Whew! talk about food going quick! you know what it is like to grocery shope for 4 growing boys!? My mother is a strong woman for that, Thanks Ma'..(to be continued)

4. Why dont a guy like you, have a girlfriend?

• ARRGGGHHHHH!!!! (DEEP SIGH) Minus the 2 and a half heartbreaks I have experienced to the point where I guard my heart and feelings more securley but still open for love and opportunity, You've got me beat on this one, I dont really have an accurate answer for this one. I know i get told all the time "You have your head on straight, your in school, your charming, sense of humor, you have a job and your own money, A degree ect". The list goes on and on. This question is kind of difficult to answer because not every woman is the same so I have different reasons for each.  But in a nutshell, I dont have a girlfriend because I simply have not ran into the right one privileged enough to be on my right side around my right arm for me to call them "My Queen, My Lady, This here is My beautiful Woman". It seems that i run into a lot of good women, but women who are at the time figuring themselves out, confused, or simply just not ready for a Guy like myself. I am more mature than my age (24) numerically reveals. I am like 6 yrs older in the head mentality so i have a different thinking pattern than most girls my age group. So at times I can be difficult or complicated but not intentionally to ruin things. So can you tell me the answer to this question?

5. Why do I like you? I wasnt supposed to like you lol?

• I promise I get the question more than once. I have asked in return this question so that I can know for myself along with my beliefs also.  It goes a bit like this....."Your so sweet", "something about you intrigues me", "something about you is interesting I think its because you got so much going for yourself and you so determined", "You are very charming i must say", "I dont know why I like you and your so much younger than I am (this one is funny)", "You just like cool and laid back", and one that i believe entirely..."You are Different from most"
• My answer would be becuase I try to keep it real, and be upfront. I do not like to mislead anyone and I try to be simple as can be to compromise a lot of situation. One thing I do all the time is be blunt and speak my mind. I really dont know the answer to this question becasue it varies from peron to person, but I know one thing is that I try to be the same person in and out. I am a very likeable kind of guy, and I am thankful for all the friends I have.

To be Continued...